It's all about expectation...
There are moments when we feel so happy, exciting, impressed or surprised about something....but what happen after that?
Remember the first time you got a good grade or the first time you got a present from someone you love or the first time you went to a very beautiful beach?
One of the reasons that makes us smile in these moments is that we didn't expect it.......................So, what comes after these wonderful feelings?
Now that we know these things can happen to us, it somehow becomes "Expectations". Expectations make us hope that these nice things will repeat or get even better. (The scary part is when one expectation is met many times, it can become "standard")
So now when our expectation is met, we are happy ,,,, but not as much as the last time. Only "above expectation" can make us as satisfied as the last time. What about "below expectation"? >> This is when "Disappointment" occurs....
As we can see, expectations eat away our happiness bit by bit. It's so strange how we create a shield to keep ourselves away from being happy.
Remember the first time you got a good grade or the first time you got a present from someone you love or the first time you went to a very beautiful beach?
One of the reasons that makes us smile in these moments is that we didn't expect it.......................So, what comes after these wonderful feelings?
Now that we know these things can happen to us, it somehow becomes "Expectations". Expectations make us hope that these nice things will repeat or get even better. (The scary part is when one expectation is met many times, it can become "standard")
So now when our expectation is met, we are happy ,,,, but not as much as the last time. Only "above expectation" can make us as satisfied as the last time. What about "below expectation"? >> This is when "Disappointment" occurs....
As we can see, expectations eat away our happiness bit by bit. It's so strange how we create a shield to keep ourselves away from being happy.
posted by oop | 7:17 PM
3 Comments:
let it flow. no we cannot control.
i leave all that expectation. the only way to be happy. it is within ourselve :)
To ignore the expectation
is one of the most difficult
thing for the expected-raised
people
เค้าถึงว่ากันไงว่า "expeectation.. kills" เนอะ
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